Is Trust Part of Learning…or Living – or Both?

A good and a bad kept me away from the blogosphere for the past couple weeks.  The ‘good’ was a visit with my brother Brian and his wife of almost 20 years Katharine.  The ‘bad’ was a root canal gone awry, prompting three visits to the dentist and a near-trip to the Emergency Room.  A whole lot of TRUST surfaced in these exchanges.  Trust that my brother and his wife would just have a good time with us, not judge us for what we are/are not doing with our kids, not worry about spending time in a house about 1/5 the size of theirs, etc.  Trust that the dentist was telling me the truth – that the best course of action really was a temporary crown at $1,350, not an immediate dose of antibiotics at a mere $7.  Trust that the pain would go away, someday.  At some points in life, you just have to take a leap of faith.  A trust in the process…and, subsequently, in others. We … [Read more...]

Lessons About Advice from So-Called Drop-Outs

It happened again.  I pick up the paper to read my favorite weekly segment in the business section of the New York Times – Corner Office – and noticed that the woman featured, Rachel Ashwell, is a high school drop-out. As the CEO of a multi-million dollar business called Shabby Chic, Ashwell is yet another reminder that professional success stems from more than just one’s diploma hanging on the wall (or lost in a box in the garage). Paul Orfalea, founder of Kinko’s, has this “drop out status”(college) in common with Ashwell, as does Wally “Famous” Amos, Peter Arnell, and Danni Ahse.  Whether your child wants to save the whales or make a million bucks as an entrepreneur selling dairy free granola bars, we can learn from these men and women who barely. if even, graduated from high school (and did not graduate from a four-year university).  Please don’t think that I’m … [Read more...]