Life Lessons of a Failed Belt Test

Yesterday I wrote about Luke, a precocious 7 year-old who is struggling in school because other kids are noisy and disruptive in class.  I want to give you more background on Luke….as a reminder to all of us that we face different types of challenges each day.  Learning how to deal with challenges in life, including a group of kids in your classes who bug the heck out of you, is what the staff teach and model at my family’s Martial Arts Academy….as this story will tell. Luke failed his first belt test at the Academy in January 2009.  His mom Jennifer e-mailed my husband (the Head of School) that evening thanking him for holding Luke to high standards.  She wrote: “Thank you for helping us to teach Luke that there are times that he will have to work for something.  Until today he has never struggled to achieve anything.  Everything has always come very easily to him.  It … [Read more...]

Martial Arts & Academics UNITE!

What if there were more alignment between Martial Arts Schools and Academic Schools?   I have yet to meet a teacher who wouldn’t want a Karate Kid in his or her class.  A disciplined, focused child who says “please” and “thank you,” sets goals, and practices whatever skill (or disposition) the class is working on at the time.  Similarly, I have yet to meet a Martial Arts instructor who doesn’t want a curious, informed student who can communicate well in his or her karate classes. So, why aren’t these types of schools collaborating more often?  Academic schools already have so much on their plate.  It may also be a matter of money. A family at a quality Martial Arts School, for example, pays for a staff’s expertise, commitment, and time.  There’s also the issue of leases or mortgages, insurance, equipment, and other necessary costs.  Millions of families still … [Read more...]

One Proud Mama

Here's a letter from a proud Mama read aloud to the 24 families at tonight's belt graduation at the Martial Arts Academy.   Siblings, grandparents, and of course moms and dads were there to congratulate loved ones who had earned the distinction of a new color or stripe on their karate belt. The most important member of that audience, though, was Jordan, a twelve year old girl who sat silently as her mom's voice sent all of us on a journey of their past two and one half years together: Dear Mr. Brad, In recommending Jordan for advancement to Brown Belt I have spent time thinking about how my girl has changed in the 2 ½ years she has trained at your school. I thought of how she started as a student of your Kid's Systema class, in part, just to make her dad happy.  I thought about how angry Jordan was when Paul and I decided she needed more training than the one day per week afforded … [Read more...]